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Self-Reliance by Ralph Waldo Emerson

  • 1841
  • English
  • Public domain
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The most bracing essay in American literature, and one of the least comfortable. Emerson's position is that you already know what you think, that you routinely abandon it because someone more confident disagreed, and that you then encounter your own rejected idea years later in another person's work and have to admire it.

He is not offering encouragement. He is accusing you.

Written in 1841 by a former minister who had resigned his pulpit rather than administer a sacrament he no longer believed in, it carries the authority of someone who paid for the position he's arguing. Bring it the opinion you've stopped voicing.

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Conformity and other people's opinion

Society as a joint-stock company against the individuality of its members.

  • I have an opinion I've stopped saying out loud.
  • Why do I collapse the moment someone confident disagrees with me?
  • How do I stop performing for people?

Trusting your own judgement

You already know. That's his claim, and his provocation.

  • How do I know if my instinct is right?
  • Everyone is telling me to do the sensible thing.
  • I keep asking for advice instead of deciding.

Consistency and changing your mind

A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds.

  • I said I'd do this and now I don't want to. Am I a fraud?
  • How do I change direction without losing face?
  • Is it weak to contradict yourself?

Envy and imitation

Envy is ignorance; imitation is suicide. He does not soften it.

  • I keep comparing myself to people ahead of me.
  • How do I stop copying what's working for everyone else?
  • I'm not sure any of my ideas are actually mine.

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  • I have an opinion I've stopped saying out loud.
  • How do I know if my instinct is right?
  • I said I'd do this and now I don't want to. Am I a fraud?
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What Self-Reliance actually is

Self-Reliance is an essay by Ralph Waldo Emerson, published in his first collection of Essays in 1841, and the central statement of American Transcendentalism.

Its argument is that genius consists in trusting your own thought, that society is organised as a conspiracy against the individuality of every one of its members, and that consistency with your own past self is a trap rather than a virtue.

Emerson had resigned as a Unitarian minister in 1832 and spent the rest of his life as a lecturer and essayist. He was Thoreau's mentor and, in a different register, a direct influence on Nietzsche — who kept a copy and marked it heavily.

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Trust thyself: every heart vibrates to that iron string.
Self-Reliance — Ralph Waldo Emerson, 1841
Whoso would be a man must be a nonconformist.
Self-Reliance — Ralph Waldo Emerson, 1841
A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds.
Self-Reliance — Ralph Waldo Emerson, 1841
To be great is to be misunderstood.
Self-Reliance — Ralph Waldo Emerson, 1841

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